By Murrant Family Funeral Services
In the United Kingdom, dogs have long held a special place in our hearts, with an estimated 12 million of these loyal companions residing in our households. They provide unconditional love, offer unwavering support, and often become integral to our families. But have you ever considered the profound impact dogs can have on us during grief and bereavement? At Murrant Family Funeral Services, we recognise the invaluable role that our four-legged friends can play in providing solace and support when we lose a loved one.
Dogs: Our Emotional Barometers
Dogs are remarkably in tune with our emotions. They have an innate ability to sense our grief, sadness, and distress. This heightened emotional sensitivity is not limited to positive moments; it also extends to the difficult periods in our lives. Many dogs react to our sorrow and anxiety in ways that might not always be positive. Some may become destructive or unpredictable as they mirror the turmoil they perceive within us. It’s crucial to respond with love and consistency during these times, reassuring our furry companions that we will always be there for them, even in the face of grief.
Dogs: Silent Comforters
Some dogs may not fully comprehend what is happening when we grieve, while others inherently understand and seek to provide comfort. The presence of a dog in your life during times of grief can help establish a sense of routine as you care for them and take them for walks, which we actively encourage our grieving families to do.
At Murrant Family Funeral Services, we have witnessed first hand how dogs can provide invaluable support to bereaved families. Jen Barham, one of our directors, shares her home with Parker and Loki and truly understands the link between dogs and their humans! Although dogs have no formal training to assist with grief and bereavement, some possess a natural aptitude for this role.
Our offices are both very dog friendly and we welcome your canine companions. We provide a comfy bed, water and treats as well as snuggles if they want them. We will also accommodate dogs at all funeral venues and partner with a local dog trainer, Parkers Packs, who will help with your four legged friend either at a time of bereavement or at the funeral itself.
The Healing Power of Canine Companionship
Beyond offering emotional support, dogs can provide a sense of purpose and routine during the challenging bereavement period. The responsibility of caring for a pet encourages structure and regularity, which can be a stabilising force for those who are grieving. Taking your dog for a walk or simply spending time with them outdoors can offer solace and tranquillity, allowing you to step away from the overwhelming emotions that often accompany losing a loved one.
Help needed with your four legged friend?
We at Murrant Family Funeral Services work alongside a local dog walking and training company, Parkers Packs. We can arrange for Abbie from Parkers Packs to assist in walking your dogs during a time of bereavement, to attend a funeral service to assist with your dogs or to pop them out for a walk while your family say their goodbyes to your loved one.
We can assist with putting this in place as part of a bespoke funeral arrangement which means that all members of your family are encompassed in our care whether they have two legs or four. Just ask us for details.
For information on funeral arrangements, contact us today.
